Our reality is what we perceive things to be. Each of those males had their own perception of school, which ultimately became their reality. They became disengaged with the learning environment. Children do not just randomly decide that they aren't going to do well in school. There are many factors as to why they do not do well. As parents, it is our duty and moral obligation to ensure that our children's influences are always positive. We have to first acknowledge and then address the disengagement and attitude towards school. As educators we see these students all the time, they put forth little to no effort in trying to do better. However, integrity should not allow one to overlook that kind of behavior without trying to find a solution. After all, that child may have to give you medicine one day while you are lying in the hospital. And surely, you want him to give you the correct dosage. Right?
The statistics will blow your mind. In Dr. Holder's research, she quoted the U.S. Department of Justice (2002) as predicting that 32% of African American males will likely be incarcerated (state or federal) during the course of their lifetime. That is unacceptable and has been changed. It is very important that these struggling young boys are reached at a young age. We can not afford to have their lights turned off. Their perception of school and their perception of success can easily become their reality. School and home must work cohesively as one unit to tackle the deeper issues that are prohibiting them from their potential.
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Reference:
HOLDER, TRACY L., Ed.D. Through Their Eyes: A Look at Achievement and Success
of Selected African American Male Students. (2006).